“CAN we take our clothes off yet?”
It is 10pm on a Saturday and I’m sipping champagne with friends at a excessive society masquerade intercourse soiree.
The air is heavy with anticipation, designer fragrance . . . and need.
While eager to shed their garments, some partygoers’ British manners cease them from initiating something.
It is left to an Italian Stallion to take the lead, playfully lifting his companion’s elegant ball robe and spanking her naked backside.
Welcome to one of many UK’s hottest intercourse events, Killing Kittens.
For the primary time, it’s internet hosting its frisky friends in Venice, the place their on a regular basis lives are hidden behind masks and inhibitions are deserted on the door.
Inspired by the sixteenth century masquerade balls of the area, KK has thrown the ultimate erotic expertise within the iconic floating metropolis.
For centuries, Venice has attracted romantics and lotharios alike.
Legendary lover Casanova strutted these streets within the 18th century, and Lord Byron fled right here in 1816 after one too many intercourse scandals in England.
It is the right place to lose your self within the firm of another person.
I arrive through the tail finish of the carnival season, together with 100 friends who’ve jetted in from everywhere in the world.
As The Sun’s Sexpert, I’ve been granted unique access to seek out out what goes on behind closed doorways.
“We have four playrooms tonight,” explains KK founder Emma Sayle as she provides me a non-public tour of the venue earlier than the debauchery begins.
“After a few hours the masks will come off and guests will trickle off into the side rooms.
“There’s a lot of bisexual girls attending tonight, so you will see a lot of girl-on-girl action.
“You will also see orgies and guests walking around watching. It’s a thousand shades of gray.”
Emma tells how she is now not fazed by what she sees at her intercourse soirees, which are sometimes held at luxurious areas, often in stylish penthouses or nation mansions.
“You’ve got 60 people naked on a bed like Dante’s Inferno, which is pretty wild, but to me that’s pretty average.
“It happens at every party.”
KK has seen a “huge rise” in British mums of their late 30s and 40s attending their raunchy occasions — and lots of are right here tonight.
You may even see orgies and friends walking round watching. It’s a thousand shades of grey
Killing Kittens founder Emma Sayle
“There’s lots of divorced mums who think, ‘We’re not on the shelf, we’ve got a fire inside us, we’ve got passion, we’ve got wants and needs’,” continues Emma, who’s buddies with Kate Middleton.
“It’s about being unapologetically selfish in the bedroom.
“We’ve got desires, we are not invisible, as people think we are. They want to come and explore and they’ve got disposable income.
“Sex isn’t about reproducing any more. It’s about pleasure. It’s about our time.
“We are more financially independent, which means we can leave husbands and unhappy marriages.
“We don’t have to stay in them.”
This is true for mum of 5 Lily, 40.
The customer support agent from London tells me she has been a KK member for 5 years, however that is her first abroad intercourse occasion.
“My partner is at home with the kids as it’s half term,” Lily says with amusing.
“We respect each other and keep in check.
“If he’s going to meet somebody, or if I’m going to meet somebody, we make sure we’re good.
“Every couple has their ups and downs but we make sure there’s nothing to rock the boat.”
Lily tells how she was “looking for adventure” when she signed as much as KK, however ended up assembly her companion at a celebration in London and the pair now have a three-year-old son.
“He came to a party with another woman, ahem,” Lily says with one other giggle.
“She’s in our friends group, so it wasn’t like I was stealing anyone. Here at Killing Kittens, we like to share!
“We met that night for the first time and have never parted. I didn’t expect this out of my life.
“I’ve got four children from my previous marriage and my partner has now taken them on as well. It’s the best thing.
“I’m so excited for tonight.
“The glamour and elegance of the Venice party is a level up from London mansions. It’s once in a lifetime.”
One time I used to be at a celebration in London and a panicked lady rushed over to me and stated, ‘S***, I’ve simply noticed my uncle!’
KK group supervisor Tash
Back to tonight and the friends are keen to begin stripping.
“It’s herd mentality,” says Emma. “People don’t want to be the first one to do it, but once other people shed theirs, they will too.”
Emma tells how everybody has to reach carrying a masks and go away it on for 2 hours till the drinks reception is over.
Other guidelines embody no telephones and females being in cost.
“Men can’t go up to women they don’t know,” she continues. “It’s females first. It’s a Kitten’s world.”
KK group supervisor Tash, 40, a mum from Winchester, Hants, tells me why masks are a should.
“It’s to ensure privacy,” she explains. “One time I was at a party in London and a panicked girl rushed over to me and said, ‘S***, I’ve just spotted my uncle!’.
“Fortunately she was wearing a mask so he didn’t notice.
“We put her in a dark corner and told her to keep her mask on.”
With that, the drinks reception is over and it’s time for me to take away the extravagant inexperienced plumage hiding my face.
But different friends on the 650 euros a ticket occasion are beginning to lose much more . . .
I spin round to see a glamorous middle-aged blonde girl carrying a sixteenth century regal Venetian costume.
She seems to be like she has stepped straight out of Netflix bonkbuster Bridgerton.
“I’m getting a bit hot under the collar, in more ways than one,” she says with amusing.
Nearby, I meet shy beginner Ed, a 32-year-old banker from London.
“The last time I wore this suit it was at my gran’s funeral,” he tells me. “It feels a tad inappropriate wearing it tonight.
“Every room is like an exhibit from a museum. I had no idea what to expect.”
It is now midnight — and for these friends, the enjoyable is simply starting.
In each nook {couples} and teams are writhing in pleasure.
Synchronised cries of ecstasy rise via the three-storey Venetian penthouse
“It’s so liberating,” says Lady Jada, 43, a designer and mum of 1 from Australia, whereas sipping a cocktail.
“We are more than just mums and housewives.”
I’ve made a number of mates locally and benefit from the intercourse chats on the app. It’s very academic
Lady Jada
Lady Jada tells me how she grew to become a KK member ten years in the past. “I find the events incredibly classy and safe,” she says.
“I’ve made lots of friends in the community and enjoy the sex chats on the app. It’s very educational.”
She admits she is “really disappointed” her companion couldn’t make it tonight.
“We are in an open relationship and he loves that I go to these parties,” she continues.
“He thinks it’s really sexy and kinky.
“He definitely wants to come with me as a guest.
“But he’s been replaced by some excellent eye candy,” she says with a giggle, nodding within the route of the muscular safety guard.
By 2am, an enormous orgy is unfolding in one of many renaissance purple rooms.
Elaborate masks — plus costly and distinctive red-soled Louboutin footwear — are strewn on the ground.
In the morning the friends will revert to their regular personas — mums who greet different mother and father on the college gates and chat about their little darlings.
Yet for a short interval tonight they escaped the confines of marriage and motherhood and had been unapologetically egocentric.
Until subsequent month, when they’ll placed on their masks and meet once more
